Personal Growth
I held grudges that only weighed me down
By Anonymous July 21, 2026
Personal Growth
By Anonymous July 21, 2026
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I kept moving the target. Every time I got somewhere I thought I wanted, I was already looking at the next thing. I did not notice what that cost until quite late.
Personal GrowthI spent years treating overthinking as a skill. I called it being careful, being thorough, being the kind of person who doesn't rush things, and it took a long time to notice what that was actually costing me.
Personal GrowthI spent years doing the same small things every day without really thinking about them, and those things added up into a version of my life I didn't exactly pick. I'm not sure I have a tidy way to explain it even now.